Richard Pringle, a dad from England, thought he’d have more time with his son, Hughie.
Hughie had a serious brain condition his doctors considered manageable. He was supposed to be fine.
Tragically, the odds struck for the worst and Hughie, 3 years old at the time, suffered a brain hemorrhage last year that he did not survive.
It’s a heartbreaking story, but Hughie’s memory lives on. Pringle says he’s “realised more than ever how precious life is.”
He wanted to help other parents appreciate the fleeting and fragile nature of life. So Pringle came up with 10 things he’s learned since his son passed.
“I was actually putting my little girl to bed one night and lying with her. It was then I wrote it,” he says. “All things I’ve been thinking about and it just flowed.”
The list reads as fond memories of a short life lived to the fullest. Yet it also serves as a powerful wake up call for any of us who might be missing out on the little moments that matter most.
“You can never ever kiss and love too much,” Pringle writes. “You always have time. Stop what you’re doing and play, even if it’s just for a minute. Nothing’s that important that it can’t wait.”
“Make boring things fun,” he adds. “Be silly, tell jokes, laugh, smile, and enjoy yourselves. They’re only chores if you treat them like that. Life is too short not to have fun.”
You can read the full list in his original post:
The post went viral and struck a nerve with parents everywhere who saw themselves in Pringle’s words.
We’re all tired from work, stressed from thinking about bills, and constantly scanning the house for what needs to be cleaned or fixed up. It becomes so easy to miss what’s right in front of us — moments with our kids that can never be recreated. All the other stuff? It can wait.
It’s not just for parents. Everyone could stand to stop and smell the roses, so to speak, a little more often.
“There’s beauty in the simple things,” Pringle says. “Things that often within our busy destructed lives go unnoticed. There’s real beauty in simplicity and I feel we all need to realize this.”
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